When the daughter is seven months old

Because Credit Card Terminal Point of Sale of receive myself guidance of mother ' My mother is an infant education expert, association's committee member Beijing toy) ,The toy that I often buy is that kind letting daughter touch it. The price of the toy is not often directly proportional to with its value. Expensive electronic toy, can only look, can't start to participate in, the intelligence to the infant is made and can not initiate good function. On the contrary, a good and inexpensive one, can let infant oneself do toy of disassembly and assembly can play a role in improving infant's intelligence. As the saying goes, clever and deft. But I say, the skillful with one's hands heart is efficacious. Let daughters start to do things constantly, could promote the early development of her brain intelligence, could let her have a happiness of a kind of creation. Development of hands and the brain, interdepending, restrict each other, mutual promotion.
In buying the memory of the toy, I have only bought an electric motor car for daughter, not much else. Other a large number of toys, will all let herself touch it, could achieve the goal of playing.
When the daughter is seven months old, my mother gives her sets of bowls. This set of toys are simple and complicated, unique also usually. It is in toy from in the outward, from small to heavy one, bowls light one make up color. The core is two light pink small bowls, deduct together from head to foot, form a " small box " . Put slightly bigger yellow bowl of a milk in again outside the light and pink one, then green, purple, red three suits, see the big bowl sequentially, set is together on one storey, so named " One set of bowls " . The size of the bowl, just accord with the infant's small hands, can hold freely.
Daughter at playing with the toy, must make sure hand, eyes, brain and spend, slight coordination and know of movement of rival. Meanwhile, through this set of toys, the daughter can have a preliminary understanding and know to size, color, form and figure. It is through the daughter's feeling, interdynamic of vision and consciousness, thus trained attention and outsight effectively, have inspire early thinking, imagination and memory, has trained the patience, curiosity, independence and self-confident.
Daughter Anne plays with this set of toys, since playing when being seven months old, play with more than a year old. In summer season, we often spread the summer sleeping mat on the floor of the sitting room, put famous melody of a section of foreign classics or Chinese children's song, the daughter sits on the summer sleeping mat, companion's music, play with bowl of her short set of stamps, disassembly and assembly, it has for a long time to play, and one hundred play and does not mind.
Daughter like another one that play touch it toy clusters of pearl young Anne have. The structure of this set of toys is extremely simple and easy too. Multicoloured wooden pearl bright in luster and several blue thick lines are put in a toy tube. Daughter through coordination ambidextrously, spend thread bunch together pearl. Whenever I play with with her, I am always one for a number of bunch, preliminary concept of giving her a figure to associate with material object. Or I require her let her discern color all red pearl bunch accurately together sometimes. She will do very conscientiously, and a bunch of good monochromatic pearl, make into the necklace, set is on my neck. I am very gratified too, I kiss her, embrace her, tell her " you are a clever girl, mother loves you " . Though she was not sociable at that time, her mode of thinking has already been taken shape, developed slowly through these conscious games.
I have read some books about infant's psychology and pedagogy successively too in cooperation with daughter. The book of this kind is during that time, though not as overwhelming, all-embracing like today, information is abundant, take what one needs, but Lin Lin always always, can learn much child-bearing experience from it. However, for me, I believe one's own daughter even more, she herself is a book of interesting and sheer, far-reaching impression. The education expert's theory, no doubt sophisticated and detached, but not so good as " my daughter Anne " This book comes truly and valuably.
Even if one mother book read volume ten thousand, agree, go, read own child diligently, then, she will inevitablely accomplish nothing in educating children. And a really wise mother, not only should understand the child-bearing theory but also good at observing the personality characteristics, tastes of one's own child at the same time, adopt the corresponding method with conditions, it must guard against being dogmatic, does not impose and twist to let nature take its course. With the child's step like this, according to one's own feeling, form a set of education methods which are suitable for one's own child progressively.
Daughter it is very early for Anne to speak, at one 3 month such as year old such as her accurate. Say, already, said for one consistent clear and coherent can express she personal requirement and language of the hoping, and with clear articulation and a mellow and full tone. Among them, her application of the preposition, adverbial word and adjective is also very just right, it is often sparkling discourse.
During the process of educating the daughter, I am standing fast at four principles from start to finish. First, respect the daughter. Treat her democratically, equally, become her friend, careful idea and requirement of listening attentively to her heart, through communicating and exchanging constantly, lead her to move along the road toward furthermore helping her personal directioning. Second, affirm her whenever and wherever possible, encourage her, appreciate her, praise her, thus help her to establish self-confidence little by little. Self-confidence is not merely in Childhood,Auto Diagnostic|Car Diagnostic|Automotive Diagnostic|bmw gt1 and even people's life, all play the function like the huge rock. It arouses all people's latent energy like the catalyst of people's ability, push the function of every part to peak. Third, give priority to the daughter's happiness. Since children's education begins with under parents' knee, mother's every word and action, every gesture will influence the child's mood. Fourth, firmly believe the interest is the best tutor who the child became a useful person. So, all knowledge make every effort to be playing with the middle school, thus sow as soon as possible the heart of entering the daughter of the seed of the interest, stimulate her curiosity.